You know the times where you blame other’s because you can’t get on with what you want to do or you make excuse after excuse because someone else won’t ‘let’ you believe in your dreams.
So let me ask this.
The person who is standing in your way, do they have you locked in a cage where you have no access to anything or anyone?
Have they magically taken your voice away or tied both your hands together so you can’t communicate at all?
Or have they brainwashed you so much that you can’t even think or choose for yourself?
Perhaps they have……..
Except they haven’t, not really.
What you need to realise is that it is YOU and only YOU who is standing in YOUR way. Nothing or no-one else. Yes you may think that your wife or your husband is stopping you, but how are they stopping you? What control do they have, to stop you ACTUALLY going for your dreams? Seriously if you can give me a straight answer to this I would LOVE to know.
Because, and this might hurt a little bit, YOU are the one who is doing this to yourself. You are putting these imaginary blocks in the way and the blocks keep getting bigger and stronger – because you are putting them there.
OK, let’s help you out a little bit.
So your partner doesn’t agree with your dreams or doesn’t have the same vision as you. Ask yourself, does this matter? And if it does have you spoken to them about it? And I mean really spoken to them? You have to be honest here and I am not saying throw the towel in on your marriage or relationship. I am saying make sure you and your partner are on the same page, heading in the same direction. To do this though you have got to talk, to communicate and share. Be honest and open. Then you will know.
You see I used to be in a relationship where I thought me and my partner were on the same page, but we weren’t. It took me a good year and a half to realise this but what matters is I did in the end. So we went our separate ways, mutually though because we both realised we where two completely different people wanting totally opposite things. So that’s what we decided. I was lucky and I learnt from it.
That is your next step, if you really want your dreams. (not the breaking up bit) but the talking bit.
It’s still you making the first move though isn’t it? Yep that’s what you’ve got to do. You can’t sit back and hope it will be OK.
If you don’t have any of these ‘obstacles’ then you definitely have no excuse. Money is not an excuse and neither is time.
YOU decide for you, whether the commitment is worth it. Whether to believe in yourself or not to.
It’s your choice. Always has been and always will be.
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